What is the Anal Sex 45-Degree Rule

Have you ever heard of the “45-degree rule” when having anal sex? Not many people have, but according to refinery29.com, besides anal lube it’s the best key to enjoyable anal sex play for both men and women.

When inserting anal beads, a butt plug, a dildo or penis inside the anus, don’t just “stick it in your butt and go”. The 45-degree rule refers to the angle in which you are tilting the object into the butt. So if you want to take your anal sex butt play to the next level and unlock erogenous zones you never even knew you had, start using the 45-degree rule as soon as you can.

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Since going straight for anal can cause pain, and nobody wants that, you’ll have to warm up the ass for sex play first.

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Certified sex educator and sex toy company ‘b-Vibe’ CEO, Alicia Sinclaire, told the online magazine that focuses on young women that she recommends using butt plugs, “Butt plugs apply pressure and push towards the clitoral structure or prostate. They can definitely be used as a warm up for penetration, but they can also be an awesome main course,”

Because the anus muscle requires some extra work to be ready for penetration with bigger objects, butt plugs not only warm up the anus for penetration for the larger sex toys or penis, but they also stimulate the prostate and the anus opening, creating a feeling of fullness.

“If you’re having difficulty getting your butt plug in, warm up with a finger or two first and use lots of lube. Help your body open-up before you try using an anal sex toy.”

So how does the 45 degree rule come into play? The best way to slide your anal sex toys in and out of the anus, for easier insertion and best pleasure, is at an optimal angle, “Slowly angle the toy downward about 45 degrees, so that one side of the bulb slides inside the anus. Keep the toy at that depth, and then gently angle the toy upward about 45 degrees,” Sinclair said.

“Go back and forth like that a few times, gently going a bit further in with each change in direction. It’s similar to the way you can get a tight pair of jeans on by shimmying your hips side to side, but a lot slower. Once the bulb is past the internal anal muscle, the toy should slip into place.”

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Because the A-spot is located at the inner ends of the vagina between the cervix and bladder, some women can actually reach the back of the clitoris through anal sex. Not every woman will feel the stimulation, but there is no harm in trying.

Sinclaire says, “If you own a vulva, anal orgasms can often happen through indirect stimulation of the erogenous zones inside the vagina. The G-spot and A-spot, are key places for pleasurable stimulation through the shared wall between the vagina and rectum.”

She said deep penetrative positions, such as doggy style, can help to hit the A-spot. The 45-degree rule applies here also, “Once in position, you’ll want to instruct your partner to angle 45 degrees upward (toward your belly button).”

The person on the bottom, or person receiving anal stimulation, is always in control. Move back and forth on your partner’s penis or dildo while arching your back.

Since every person’s body is different, you’ll have to be patient to find out what works for you. It will probably take time to find the right way to stimulate your partner (or yourself) during anal sex for optimal pleasure, but once you’ve done it, you’re in for quite a treat!

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Minnesota Public Schools Ask Students to Role Play Gay and Trans Sex Scenarios

School Teaches Gay & Transgendered Sex, Anal Sex, to Students

Activists at the Richfield Public Schools board are speaking out against a controversial sex education program where it’s students participate in role-playing gay and transgender sex scenarios, or pretending to be transgender to have sex with women.

Julie Quist, a Child Protection League board member, said at the meeting, “Programs like 3Rs are not effective, this type of teaching has no place in our schools”. The “3Rs” represent “rights, respect, responsibility”, was designed by Planned Parenthood partner, Advocates for Youth.

“It sexualizes children and normalizes sexual behavior at a young age, teaching sexual pleasure, masturbation, anal, and oral sex, and that consent is all that is needed,” Quist said.

The play sex scenarios have students pair up and pretend they are in gay or lesbian relationships, and have them go through the process of deciding whether or not they should have sex.

In one lesson, two students are asked to play the parts of an actively gay member of the school’s LBGTQ club, and another as a “straight” student, where they develop a plan for the two students to secretly meet and have sex.

Other school curriculum will has students in kindergarten through fifth grade learning about anal sex as a way to prevent HIV / AIDS, and it was alleged that the teachers instructed children how to do it.

The lesson plan for the sex-ed curriculum is almost 700 pages, and parents were given the option for their children to opt-out.

In a district statement, representative wrote, “We do NOT teach elementary students about anal sex, show them graphic images, or ask them to role play, as has been reported by some media outlets”.

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Maitland Ward Makes More Money Now Doing Porn

Former Disney Channel child actress and star of the hit teen comedy, ‘Boy Meets World’, Maitland Ward, now 42 and happily married, said she is making a “five-figure” monthly salary now as a porn actress in the adult entertainment business.

Maitland Ward said she had her best month in 2018 when she earned $62,000 selling online content.

Mrs. Ward told the thedailybeast.com. “When people say, ‘She had to turn to porn,’ I laugh, because this is a good thing and I’m making more now… If you talked to my younger, more virginal soap-opera self, I never would have seen this coming out of me.”

In a previous interview Maitland said , “I thought I’d be more nervous, but I wasn’t. It’s been way easier and I’ve enjoyed it so much more than I’d expected. And I’m good at it. It feels natural to me. If you talked to my younger, more virginal soap-opera self, I never would have seen this coming out of me.”

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The adult entertainment porn star said her husband supports her work, saying, “My husband has been supportive of me, because this is something that’s in me, that I need to do, and that I like to do,’ she says. ‘And it’s just another kind of performance.”

Ms. Ward public porn career began when she started doing lesbian sex play scenes on her premium Snapchat account, something Maitland called “just another kind of performance,” which then led to her first feature length porn movie, an adult erotic thriller titled, ‘Drive’, where she recently received two nominations at the AVN Awards for the Best three way sex scene and the best supporting actress for her role.

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Maitland said she will soon play another feature role in what she described an “an anti-Hallmark Christmas featurette”, where she will play a woman seducing a man at a Sex Addicts Anonymous meeting, along with other erotic adult movies that are still in the works.

Emilia Clarke Says She Felt Pressured To Play Sex Roles After Playing ‘Game of Thrones’

Updated December 18, 2019 – Emilia Clarke said that she was pressured to do nude scenes for projects after she played the role of Daenerys Targaryen on “Game of Thrones”, where she frequently appeared nude.

Emilia, speaking in a recent ‘Armchair Expert’ podcast , said, “I’m a lot savvier with what I’m comfortable with, and what I am okay with doing, I’ve had fights on set before where I’m like, ‘No, the sheet stays up,’ and they’re like, ‘You don’t wanna disappoint your ‘Game of Thrones’ fans.’ And I’m like, ‘F— you.’ I feel like I’ve seen enough now to know what is actually needed.”

Clarke revealed that she found nude scenes terrifying when role playing intimate sex scenes on the “Game of Thrones”, and remembered how her former co-star Jason Momoa acted as a mentor for her while filming the opening season of the HBO hit series. Emilia Clarke starred on “Game of Thrones” for 10 years,

Emilia said, “It’s only now that I realize how fortunate I was with that, because that could have gone many, many, many different ways. Because Jason had experience, he had done a bunch of stuff before coming on to this, he was like, ‘Sweetie, this is how it’s meant to be and this is how it’s not meant to be, and I’m going to make sure that’s the way it goes… He was so kind and considerate and cared about me as a human being. He took care of me, he really did. In an environment where I didn’t know I needed to be taken care of,” Emilia continued.

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Continuing, Emilia said, “I’d come fresh from drama school, and I was like, ‘Approach this as a job.’ If it’s in the script then it’s clearly needed, this is what this is and I’m gonna make sense of it,” Emilia said, “I’m floating through this first season and I have no idea what I’m doing, I have no idea what any of this is. I’ve never been on a film set like this before, I’d been on a film set twice before then, and I’m now on a film set completely naked with all of these people, and I don’t know what I’m meant to do and I don’t know what’s expected of me.”

Emilia Clarke then described how she felt comfortable pushing back, requesting less nudity after playing the sexy Daenerys Targaryen on Season 1 of Game of Thrones, With Momoa’s guidance.

The #MeToo movement has opened our eyes to many of the methods powerful people in Hollywood take advantage of actors and actresses because of their status and influence. Many actors are pressured into showing their nude bodies.

Natalie Portman, Jennifer Lopez, Halle Berry, Salma Hayek, Sarah Jessica Parker, Debra Messing, Ciera Payton and many more actors have been pressured to take their clothes off to play a sex role on camera.

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“Young actors often don’t think of the consequences of doing nudity or sex scenes. They want the role so badly that they agree to be exploited and then end up embarrassing family, friends, and even strangers.” Natalie Portman on nude sex scenes.

Actresses at every level in the movie industry are often pressured into performing nude scenes or playing a semi-nude movie role. The bottom line is, and what needs correcting in the industry, is that far too many stars decide to take their clothes off to play a nude or graphic sex role in a movie scene because they are really worried about the implications if they say “NO”, or simply because they felt intimidated to show their nude bodies.

Flight of Fury actress, Ciera Payton, in her first professional acting role said neither the film’s producers or her agent showed her the full script, which included a nude shower scene. She read the screenplay for the first time halfway through her flight that to Romania, where the movie was being filmed, and discovered she had to play in a scene where her character’s role comes out of the shower naked.

Confronting the lead actor, Steven Seagal, she told the Washington Post that she told Seagal she wasn’t comfortable performing the nude scenes. Payton said about that conversation, “He’s kind of sitting there, and he’s trying to think of what to say, and he goes, ‘You won’t even show your tits?”.

Seagal sent Payton outside to gather the other higher-ups people into his trailer, all of them were male. Then he called Payton back in to question her and said Payton, “somebody in the room is just like, ‘You know, we stuck our neck out to hire you for this’”.

Actress Alysia Reiner, star of “Orange Is the New Black” and “Better Things”, said early in her career was made to play a sex role that was even in the original movie’s script. Reiner said, “It feels surprisingly like high school, like peer pressure. Particularly as a young actor, there is this fear of, ‘I will get fired, and I need this job.’ There’s this feeling of being easily replaceable.”

Emilia Clarke, in her Armchair Expert podcast interview said that while she is now “a lot savvier” about indicating what she is and isn’t comfortable doing, Emilia said there was pressure to perform a certain way for fans, “I’ve had fights on set before where I’m like, ‘No, the sheet stays up,’ and they’re like, ‘No, you don’t wanna disappoint your Game of Thrones fans.’ And I’m like, ‘Fuck you!'”, said Emilia.

You can listen to the Emilia Clarke Armchair Expert podcast here, or watch all of Emilia Clarke’s nude scenes here.

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