How to Begin Your Sexual Role Playing Adventure

For some, the phrase ‘role play’ can send a shiver of excitement down our spines, but for others it’s might be more an uncomfortable chill of fear. But it doesn’t have to be. Many people find it easier than others to develop a new ‘part-time’ persona to explore sexual situations they normally would never do, which allows allows them to experience greater fulfillment and brings them closer to their partner.

A recent survey said that 73% of couples had experimented with role play at some time in their lives, but if you’re a beginner, how do you get into it without feeling weird?

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Annabelle Knight,a leading Relationship & Sex Expert in the UK, gives practical advice for first time role players to femalefirst.co.uk. First, know what you want. Annabelle says if you’re thinking about bringing role play to your sex life it’s important to think about what you want to get out of it, and choose the right role playing situations that fit. For example, if you want to try bondage for the first time and you don’t want to just be “yourself”, try a police themed role play scenario and use handcuffs. Want to play the more submissive type? Try playing the secretary and boss, or doctor/nurse role playing themes.

Then, once you know what you want, talk through it. Annabelle suggests that you explain exactly what you want to happen in your role-playing sex fantasy. If your partner knows exactly what you’re after it’s easier to improvise around the ‘plot’.

After you plan your theme and choose your outfit, ie; police officer, business suit, nurse outfit, etc., think about your “setting”. Are you in an interrogation room, a business office, classroom, hospital bed? Try to make your setting fit the feel.

Other beginner role playing ideas could include acting as sexy strangers that meet for the first time somewhere, like at a local hotel bar, or even playing a hitchhiker. Wear a wig or other disguise, develop your stories, and let the flirtation begin!

Young woman tells why she naps in diapers

While researching adult women who like to play with their childhood toys, a 24 years young Oregon girl started dressing as a baby to escape her adult worries, and she shares her life on Instagram to spread awareness and meet other people who love the subculture as much as she does.

Heidi is a ‘little’, which means she plays the part of a baby in the Adult Baby Diaper Lovers (ABDL) and Daddy Dom/Little Girl subcultures. But baby play isn’t sexual for Heidi, unlike some who take part in the culture, she says “When I have sex, I am my normal, adult self.”

Heidi usually spends an hour or more each day doing baby play, where she’ll wear her hair in pigtails and dress up in pink children’s outfits and wear a nappy, then play with toys while moving around like a one to three year old child would.

Heidi explained to Metro.co.uk, “”What attracted me to this lifestyle is how confident and proud everyone was about who they were.”

“Since I was 18, I have roleplayed as a baby without knowing there were others like me out there. I immediately felt comforted that there was a whole group of people out there that would love and accept me for who I am.”

Continuing, “When I roleplay as a baby, I put on a diaper, a onesie and some baby lotion. I also have adult sized pacifiers. I do not use the diaper, it simply helps me get into the headspace. I’ll play with toys such as blocks, stuffed animals, dolls, or dress up. I can be silly and jump on the bed, or quiet and sleepy. When I’m little, I forget about any adult problem I may have had. I also go to a local bi-monthly meetup for littles and their caregivers. It’s at a private venue, so we all wear our baby clothes, watch cartoons, and do crafts. I always look forward to seeing my little friends.”

Heidi said ‘Little Space’ is, “a state of mind where you can regress to your childhood. All I can do to combat this misconception is explain in a calm, adult manner what our community really is”.

“Another misconception is that adult babies are babies 24/7. In reality, only an hour or two a day is spent being little. I still go to work, pay my bills, cook and clean. My first word of advice is to be confident in who you are. Second, there is no right or wrong way to be little. You can wear all pink, or you can wear only black. You don’t have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable.”

“Third, find a few friends online who are into the same things you are.”

Why do some women call out “Daddy” during sex?

Is screaming “Daddy” during sex as weird as it sounds? According to The Sun Sex experts say that calling your partner Daddy in the bedroom is really just a sign of a loving and healthy relationship, but yelling the word is still sexual taboo.

Sex therapist Jacqueline Hellyer told the magazine that using the nickname is just another form of role play sex, “You often find that women who like to be submissive in relationships, like the kind of women who’d call their partner ‘daddy’ in bed, are actually pretty high-powered in their day-to-day lives. Engaging in this role play is their way of letting go and giving in to vulnerability.”

Jacqueline added that fathers are caring, supportive and assertive, and by calling your partner “daddy” while lovemaking is about embracing those qualities in a relationship.

This role playing sexual scenario actually makes some women feel safe, loved and secure.

Vladimir Putin said Russian women can have sex with visiting World Cup tourists

  1. Vladimir Putin said Russian women can have sex with visiting World Cup tourists 

    Responding to a sex ban call by the head of the Russian parliamentary family committee, Tamara Pletnyova, 70, who said she hoped women would not date visiting fans and get pregnant, a Vladimir Putin spokesperson said otherwise.

    Dmitry Peskov told reporters: ‘As for Russian women, they can, perhaps, decide it on their own. They are the best women in whole world.’

    Pletnyova said young women should “get something clear in their heads regarding foreigners”, warning that Russian women could end up raising mixed-race children on their own, and referred to the ‘Children of the Olympics’ after the 1980 Moscow games.

     tribune.com.pk