If you want to really feel ready before having sex, The Huffingtonpost said you need to follow their experts’ sex tip checklist before you play:

• Hint at sex long before you have it
• Have condoms ready
• Stash lube by your bedside
• Consider the details (lighting, candles, etc..)
• Stimulate your brain (in the hours leading up to sex)
• Forget about everything else – Make your to-do list and then put it away
• Feel sexy – Do one thing that makes you feel sexier
• Breath deep – Take a few deep breaths
• Don’t rush – Start off slow and don’t forget the foreplay

HuffPost South Africa (blog)