Whether you want to bring a little more excitement back to your sex life, increased pleasure and intimacy in the bedroom, or if you just like trying something new, experimenting with new sexual positions can be a fun and enjoyable way for couples to explore and expand their sexual experiences together. Different sex positions can provide different types and angles of stimulation, which can lead to new and different sensations and pleasure.
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What are the Most Daring Sex Positions for Amateurs?
It’s impossible to give a definitive list of the most used sexual positions, because a list of sex positions will vary depending on someone’s cultural background, individual sexual preferences and the dynamics of the relationship. However, some popular but more daring, and definitely sexually fulfilling, sex positions you can do to enhance your sex life are:
- Standing Sex
- Sitting/Kneeling
- Butterfly
- Lotus
- Scissors
- Eagle
- Wheelbarrow
- Reverse Cowgirl
- Anvil
- Leg Glider
- Crab
- Spider
- Flatiron
- Pretzel
- Piledriver
When deciding if you should try a new sex position, it’s important to keep in mind that sex positions aren’t the only things that determine the levels of sexual pleasure and intimacy in a sexual relationship, communication and trust are also key in any sexual encounter. Also, it’s important to experiment and explore different positions that work best for you and your partner(s).
It’s important to note that all of these sex positions can be challenging as they require good balance, stability and communication to be performed safely, so be sure that all partners are comfortable and physically able to perform them. These sexual positions and techniques should always be done in a private and consensual setting, and it’s important to use protection if needed.
It’s also important to communicate throughout every sexual encounter to ensure that both (or all) partners are comfortable and are enjoying the sex, confirm the sex position is consensual, and be sure no one is ever experiencing any pain or discomfort while engaging in any sexual act.
Standing Sex
The “Standing” position is a sexual position where both partners engage in sexual activity while standing up, and it can be done in different ways and variations. It is not limited to the bedroom as it can happen in different places and in different scenarios.
One way of performing this position is for the receiving partner to be leaned against a wall or other sturdy surface and the penetrating partner to enter them while standing. This can be done facing each other or with the receiving partner facing the wall. The receiving partner can wrap their legs around the penetrating partner’s waist for support and deeper penetration.
Another way can be for the penetrating partner to stand behind the receiving partner and enter them from behind, this can be done in a bent over position, with the receiving partner holding onto a stable surface, such as a table or countertop, for support.
Sitting/Kneeling
The “Sitting/Kneeling” position is a sexual position where both partners engage in sexual activity while either sitting or kneeling. It can be done in different ways and variations and it provides more intimacy than a standing position because of the proximity to one another.
One way of performing this position is for the receiving partner to sit or kneel on the bed, with the penetrating partner sitting or kneeling in front of them and entering them. This can be done in a face-to-face position or with the receiving partner facing away from the penetrating partner.
Another way of performing this position is for both partners to sit or kneel facing each other and the penetrating partner enters the receiving partner from this position. This is also called the lotus position and it is quite intimate and allows for a lot of intimate contact such as kissing, touching and cuddling.
It is considered a more intimate and romantic position, it allows for both partners to be close to each other and it’s suitable for people who have hip or knee issues or just prefer a less intense position.
It can be modified by using pillows or cushions to support the receiving partner’s back and neck.
It’s important to make sure both partners are comfortable with this position and to communicate throughout the experience to ensure that both partners are enjoying themselves and are not experiencing any pain or discomfort.
The Sitting/Kneeling sexual position is considered a spiritual position and has deep meaning in Eastern culture, it is not limited to sexual intercourse.
The Butterfly Sex Position
The Butterfly position is a sexual position where the receiving partner lies on their back with their knees bent and feet together, while the penetrating partner kneels between their legs, supporting the receiving partner’s legs on their shoulders or on the edge of the bed. This position allows for deep penetration and also provides a good angle for the receiving partner to stimulate their own clitoris.
To do this position, the receiving partner lies on their back on the bed or other flat surface with their knees bent and feet together. The penetrating partner kneels between the receiving partner’s legs and supports the receiving partner’s legs on their shoulders or on the edge of the bed, depending on the couple’s preference. The penetrating partner then enters the receiving partner and can move in rhythm with each other for sexual stimulation.
It can be a bit challenging due to the angle and positioning required, It may be more comfortable with some pillows or cushions to support the receiving partner’s back and head.
It’s important to make sure both partners are comfortable with this position and to communicate throughout the experience to ensure that both partners are enjoying themselves and are not experiencing any pain or discomfort.
It’s also important to note that this position may require a certain level of flexibility on the part of the receiving partner. Like most sexual positions, it may be adjusted and modified to suit the needs and comfort of the individuals involved.
The Lotus Sex Position
The Lotus position is a sexual position where the penetrating partner sits cross-legged, and the receiving partner sits on top of them, facing them, with their legs wrapped around the penetrating partner’s waist. This position allows for a great deal of intimacy and allows the partners to look into each other’s eyes and kiss during intercourse.
To do this position, both partners start in a seated position, facing each other. The receiving partner sits on top of the penetrating partner, with their legs wrapped around the penetrating partner’s waist. They can then move in rhythm with each other for sexual stimulation.
This position is quite intimate, as the partners are face to face and can look into each other’s eyes and kiss. However, it may be challenging for some partners as it requires a certain level of flexibility and comfort in a seated position, especially for prolonged time. To make it more comfortable, they can use pillows to support their backs and help with the angle of penetration.
Please also note that this is an intimate, loving and spiritual position in many Eastern culture particularly in Hinduism and Buddhism, and is not limited to sexual intercourse.
The Scissors Position
The Scissors position is a sexual position in which the partners lie on their sides with their legs positioned in a V-shape so they can grind against each other for sexual stimulation. It’s a position that allows for a comfortable and intimate experience, and may be adjusted to suit both partners’ comfort and for deeper penetration. It is a preferred position for for girl-on-girl sex.
This position can also be known as the “Crab position” if both partner’s legs are crossing. Also, it is considered a good position for couples trying to conceive because of the deep penetration it allows. It can be a comfortable position and great for people with hip or knee issues, or just simply prefer a less intense position.
The Eagle Sex Position
The Eagle position usually refers to a variation of the doggy-style position where the receiving partner kneels on their hands and knees while the penetrating partner kneels behind them. The receiving partner’s legs are spread apart with their feet resting on the bed or floor, creating a shape that resembles an eagle’s spread wings. The penetrating partner can then enter them from behind. This position allows for deep penetration and can provide a lot of stimulation for the G-spot or prostate. It also allows for easy access to the genitals and breasts, so it can be good for couples who want to include stimulation of those areas in their sexual activity.
The Wheelbarrow Position
The Wheelbarrow position is a sexual position in which the receiving partner supports themselves on their hands and feet, while the penetrating partner holds onto their hips or waist from behind and enters them. This position allows for deep penetration and also provides a good angle for the penetrating partner to stimulate the receiving partner’s clitoris. It may also involve some playful and acrobatic movements.
This position is considered to be quite physically demanding and could be challenging for some couples, It’s important that both partners should be comfortable with this position and its movements.
It’s usually recommended that the receiving partner should be fairly strong and comfortable being in a weight-bearing position for an extended period of time. It also may be a good idea to use some pillows or cushions for comfort and support.
The Reverse Cowgirl
The Reverse Cowgirl position, also known as the “Backwards Cowgirl” or “Reverse Rider”, is a variation of the traditional Cowgirl position where the receiving partner straddles the penetrating partner, facing away from them instead of facing them. This position allows for deep penetration and also provides a good angle for the receiving partner to stimulate their own clitoris.
To do this position, the penetrating partner lies on their back on the bed or other flat surface, while the receiving partner straddles them, facing away from them, with one leg on either side of the penetrating partner’s hips. The receiving partner then lowers themselves onto the penetrating partner’s erect penis and can move in rhythm with each other for sexual stimulation. The receiving partner can also lean forward or back to change the angle of penetration or to stimulate different parts of their genitals.
It’s a position that allows for deep penetration and can be quite intense for both partners. It also allows for the receiving partner to control the pace, angle, and intensity of the thrusting.
The Revers Cowgirl sex position require a certain level of flexibility, comfort and strength from the receiving partner and may be adjusted with the use of pillows or cushions to support the receiving partner’s back.
The Anvil
The Anvil position is a sexual position in which the receiving partner lies on their back, with their legs bent and raised, while the penetrating partner kneels between their legs and supports their raised legs on their shoulders, resting their hands on the receiving partner’s hips. This position allows for deep penetration and also provides a good angle for the receiving partner to stimulate their own clitoris.
It can be intense for both partners but also it may require a certain level of flexibility on the part of the receiving partner, like most sexual positions, it may be adjusted and modified to suit the needs and comfort of the individuals involved.
The position has also been known as The “Butter Churner” or “Reverse Cowgirl” which is pretty similar and the main difference it may be the angle of the thrusts.
The Leg Glider
The Leg Glider is a sexual position that involves both partners lying down on their sides, with one partner’s legs straddling the other’s. The partner on the bottom will open their legs, allowing the partner on top to glide their legs in between, this position allows for deep penetration and can be quite pleasurable for both partners.
This position gives both partners more control over the angle and depth of penetration, allowing for more intimacy and pleasure. However, it’s worth noting that this position is similar to others and may not be suitable for everyone and it is important to pay attention to both partners comfort and communication.
As always, it’s important to keep an open dialogue with your partner(s) about what positions feel good and what doesn’t to make sure everyone is comfortable and having a positive experience.
The Crab Sex Position
The Crab position is a variation of the missionary position, in which the person on the bottom keeps their legs together and slightly bent, while the person on top straddles them. The person on top then leans back and supports their weight on their hands. This position can be quite intimate as the partners’ faces are close together, it also allows for deep penetration.
Some variation of the crab position could be that the person on top also puts their legs on top of their partner’s creating an “X” shape and allow for deeper penetration.
It’s important to note that this position, like any other, may not work for everyone, so it’s important to communicate with your partner about what positions feel good for both of you, and to make adjustments as necessary for your comfort.
The Spider Sex Position
The Spider position is a variation of the missionary position, in which the penetrating partner kneels in front of the receiving partner, who raises their legs up and wraps them around the penetrating partner’s waist. This position provides deep penetration and allows for a great deal of intimacy, with the couple able to look into each other’s eyes and kiss during intercourse.
It’s a position that can be quite intense and intimate for both partners, but it may also require a certain level of flexibility on the part of the receiving partner. Like most sexual positions, it may be adjusted and modified to suit the needs and comfort of the individuals involved.
It can also be known as the “Scissor position” if both partner’s legs are intercrossed. It can be a favorite for some and not so much for others, it may depend on the couple’s anatomy and preferences.
The Flatiron
The Flatiron position, also known as the “downward doggy” position, is a variation of the traditional doggy style position in which the receiving partner is bent forward at the waist with their arms and head resting on the bed while the penetrating partner enters from behind. It’s considered as one of the most intense position as it allows for deep penetration.
It’s a position that can be quite intense and invigorating for both partners, but it may also require a certain level of flexibility on the part of the receiving partner. Like most sexual positions, it may be adjusted and modified to suit the needs and comfort of the individuals involved.
The Pretzel
The Pretzel position is a sexual position where one person lies on their left side with their legs bent, and the other person kneels and straddles them, facing the opposite direction. This allows for deep penetration, and it is also known as the “reverse missionary” position.
It could be varied depending on couple’s preferences and anatomy .This position is thought to be a variation of the spooning position and is also considered a good position for couples trying to conceive because of the deep penetration it allows.
The Piledriver
The Piledriver, a variation of doggy-style, is a sexual position that is considered to be more advanced and is not for everyone. It requires a certain level of physical fitness and flexibility from both partners. In this position, the person on the bottom has their legs bent and raised, while the person on top kneels and holds their legs, lifting them up and supporting them with their hands. The receiving partner’s legs are then pulled back toward their chest, and the penetrating partner performs intercourse from behind while leaning over the receiving partner’s lifted legs.
This allows for deep penetration and can be quite stimulating for both partners. However, it’s important to note that this position puts a lot of stress on the person on the bottom’s neck and can be quite uncomfortable if not done properly. If you’re interested in trying this position, it’s important to take things slow and be mindful of your partner’s comfort and safety.
This position can be quite intense and provide deep penetration, but it can also be challenging for some people, particularly those with back or shoulder pain, it is also not recommended for people who are not comfortable with acrobatic positions or for those who are not strong enough to support their partner’s weight. As with any sexual position, it’s important to make sure that both partners are comfortable with it and that it is safe for their physical conditions.
There you have it. Fifteen sexually rejuvenating positions that you might not have ever heard of, or dared to even try if you have. Keep in mind that if you decide to try any of these stimulating but highly challenging sex positions, always be mindful of your partner(s). It’s important to approach new sexual positions with care and consideration, being mindful of each partners’ physical and emotional comfort, and to take the time to communicate openly and honestly about any concerns or limitations. When trying new sexual positions, always consider:
Some positions can be physically demanding or challenging, and may not be suitable for people with certain health conditions or physical limitations. For example, positions that involve lifting or holding a partner’s weight can be difficult for people with back or shoulder pain, and positions that involve deep penetration can be uncomfortable for people with certain types of vaginal or anal conditions.
it’s important to communicate with your partner about your limitations and comfort level before trying a new position. It’s also important to pay attention to your partner’s physical and emotional reactions during the act, and to make adjustments as necessary.
Some positions may require certain techniques that might not be obvious or easy to perform without practice, so it is important to be familiar with the proper technique in order to avoid injuries or discomfort.
Some positions may require a level of trust and intimacy that can take time to build. And not everyone might be comfortable with certain positions.