From making obscene phone calls to playing a sexy board game, relationship expert Tracey Cox lists 12 sex games to get you through the cold winter months.
1) Make obscene phone calls – Cox advises one partner to make an obscene phone call to the other, like asking “What are you wearing?”.
2) Dressing for sex – Suggest wearing something sexy when you go out, like a sexy bra, to remind you of the great sex you have have when you get home
3) Tell a sexy story – Write down an erotic story (based on you and your partner), going into as much detail as possible, and leave it where the other can find it.
4) Record yourselves having sex – Then play it back when you’re somewhere you can’t fool around
5) Flash – Turn out the lights and light up one area of your own body with a flaslight. “Each lit body part must be touched, stroked and/or licked for two minutes, then the torch gets passed onto the next person.”
6) Play dress up – Nurse outfits, cat suits, french maid – wear any role-playing outfits to push you out of your comfort zones.
7) Fantasy dice – Write down and number six fantasies, when the dice lands on a number, they have to complete the corresponding fantasy.
8) Be a sex therapist – Call from a separate room and act as a sex therapist, giving sex advice on how to pleasure his or her partner.
9) No hands – Tie your partner’s hands together and ask him or her to seduce you.
10) Play guinea pig – Line up all your sex toys for when your partner gets home, then try them out out and have him/her rate them.
11) Play a board game – choose games that list sex activities you must perform on your partner.
Brides.com listed 15 “totally normal” sex fantasies that you wouldn’t be weird for having:
Sex in public
Role play
Tying up your partner
Spanking
Sex with someone of the same gender, or opposite
Sex on vacation
Sex on vacation
Sex with an ex
Sex with someone other than your partner
Cuckolding
Domination and submission
Voyeurism
Sex with someone famous
Sex with a stranger
Having a threesome or gangbang
After all, we ALL have sexual fantasies that are varied, and range from the lightest to the darkest extremes much like human sexuality itself. So don’t beat yourself up over-thinking about something you imagine is “wrong.” It’s not bad at all!
According to sex toy maker EdenFantasys, 40% of Americans claim to be a “kinky person”, 36% have a specific kink or fetish, and 27% of U.S. citizens that are currently in a relationship have a secret sex act they want to try, but haven’t asked their sex partner yet.
After researching the sex lives of 2,000 people in the U.S., using sex toys is the most popular sex act, with 49% open to using them, EdenFantasys said.
51% of people who admitted to having a particular fetish said that it takes at least a month for them, and sometimes much longer, to feel they’re brave enough to tell their partner.
A survey of 1,000 people that had fantasized about having sex outside in the public, or actually had outdoor sex, revealed the best place to have sex in the public is in a public park.
26.1 percent of people agreed that some type of public parks is the best spot to have sex outside. The researchers also said most people like to have sex in the evening, with 73 percent of people admitting that’s their ideal time for sex.
Sex inside of a car was the next favorite location, with 16.7 of people preferring their automobiles for having outdoors sex.
Coming in 3rd was having sex on the beach or in the ocean, at 12.7%.
6% said preferred having sex in a public bathroom was their thing.
2.6% liked the idea of having sex in a movie theater.
2.4% said they fantasized or had sex on a college campus
2% said having sex in a public dressing room did it for them.
1.8% percent of the respondents admitting to having sex in a swimming pool.’
1.6% preferred sex on a balcony.
Ánd finally bringing up the rear, only 1.4% of people polled admitted that having sex in the workplace was the best public place they’d want to do it in.
