Rachel McAdams’ favorite sex scene wasn’t in The Notebook, the gorgeous actress recently admitted to Entertainment Weekly that she had the best play sex ever with female actress Rachel Weisz on the set of her new movie ‘Disobedience’.
Playing lesbian lovers forced to hide their relationship from their Orthodox Jewish community, the 39 year young Rachel McAdams said the filming of the movie’s sex scene, “felt so integral to the plot and moving the story forward. The characters need this release to open up… There was energy to that scene that I haven’t experienced in any other sex scenes [with men] in my career.”
So is Rachel McAdams a lesbian? “We both felt safe and free”, McAdams said, “All those things that you love about being a woman… so I understand the attraction and appeal to that in a sexual context.”
Racehl Weisz, also a producer of the film, said the play sex scene, “is a massively important and beautiful scene,” and added a little detail, saying “He [director Sebastián Lelio] made it clear everything he wanted: the wetness, me spitting in Rachel’s mouth, and a focus on Esti’s (Rachel McAdams’ character) orgasm”.
Weisz’ character has an orgasm in the movie too, but she said she had to agree as a producer that even though it was a very good orgasm, it wasn’t as good for the story as Rachel McAdams’ orgasm.
“In that moment, Esti’s orgasm is both a sexual release and a metaphorical release to freedom, it’s like she’s free to find out who she really is.” Weisz said.
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If you’re curious about the erotic sexual power play of BDSM but don’t quite feel ready enough yet to invest and play in a full scale dungeon, Allure.com magazine just listed some of the BDSM sex tips and advice that you can try if you are a total beginner:
1. Talk through your interests and boundaries
2. Try out some dirty talk
3. Add a blindfold
4. Explore orgasm control
5. Buy a massage candle
6. Learn the ropes
7. Slip on a pair of handcuffs
8. Play dress-up
There is no shame in being new to BDSM. “BDSM doesn’t require any money,” sex therapist Michael Aaron told Allure. “Much of it is psychological, and if you are looking for impact play, many people feel like no toy beats their hands anyway, and that’s free. Likewise, various household items such as rope and clothespins can be used in scenes, and they hardly cost anything at all.”
Society has conditioned us to believe that sex has to have an emotional meaning to be good, but it’s perfectly normal you’d want to explore a more casual situation, and casual sex can help you discover what you do and don’t like as well as explore different sexual tastes that you might not want to try in a more serious relationship.
Thisisinsider.com says it’s perfectly OK to want to explore casual sex with plenty of benefits for those who want to engage, “You can discover a lot about yourself; what you like and don’t like, what works for you,” says Gigi Engle, a sex educator and writer, “It’s a great way to meet interesting people and explore different sexual tastes you might not otherwise.”
There are risks associated with any sexual situation, but Engle says, “We live in a society that has conditioned us to think sex has to have emotional meaning to be good, when you’ve been told having casual sex makes you a slut or if he, or she, doesn’t call you after, you’re worthless. Well, this can sting.”
“Condoms… during penetration is not up for negotiation,” Engle added. “Yes, I do mean condoms during blow jobs and dental dams during oral sex. The fact of the matter is that 85 percent of people have some form of HPV (not to mention all the other STIs).”
But casual sex might not be for everyone. Just like every other type of sex, from pegging to role play, What works for some may not work for others. “Having sex in a way that makes you feel good about yourself is the most important.” Engle said.
