Helpful Tips For Your First Time Playing in a Sex Club

  1. What to Expect Your First Time at a Sex Club  

    Contrary to what most people think about them, sex clubs can actually be quite varied, and a lot of fun! Often styled like a typical nightclub, sex clubs often include private areas with beds and other toys for sex play.

    Some things you should do, according to lifehacker.com, before you visit a club for the first time are:

    • Research Your Options – do you have to go through any necessary steps or pre-screening?
    • Familiarize Yourself with the Club’s Rules – most sexclubs will have a website where the rules are listed in detail.
    • Make Friends with the Staff – spend a few minutes chatting up the hosts, bar staff, or security
    • Figure out Your Own Rules – think about what sexual activities you’ll feel comfortable playing with
    • Bring Your Own Gear – lube, condoms, whatever..
    • Always Ask for Permission – know the participants sexual boundaries and limits
    • Clean Up After Yourself – it’s just good sex club etiquette
    • Check in with Yourself and Each Other – if you’re with a friend or partner check-in time at a specified time to see how you’re each doing.

    Read original article at Lifehacker

Ice Cubes During Sex – 3 Techniques To Avoid


  1. Three Techniques To Avoid if You Use Ice Cubes During Sex, Expert Says
     

    Using temperature during sex play involves using cold or hot objects to arouse sensitive areas of your bodies, and naturally ice cubes are an easy way to get a cool sensations. If you use ice cubes during sex, elitedaily.com says there are both safe and possibly dangerous ways to play with them, listing three techniques to avoid when using ice in the bedroom:

    1. Using ice straight out of the freezer.

    2. Inserting ice internally.

    3. Mistaking tingling sensations for arousal.

    In essence, before using ice on sensitive areas, first let it thaw out slightly, says sex educator Crista Crista, “t’s hard to tell the difference between fun shocking cold and damaging shocking cold.”

    Crista said you should proceed with “excessive caution” when using ice internally during sex play, and the ice should never be inserted for more than five minutes,

    Also, don’t get frostbite! “Pins and needles” sensations, burning or stinging are all warning signs of frostbite.

    A better way to use ice cubes into foreplay or sex play, elitedaily.com recommends, is to run the slightly melted ice lightly over lips, nipples, earlobes, wrists and fingers, inner thighs, down the spine and lower back and along the bottom feet.

     Elite Daily

Having Play Sex With a Robot May Not Be Healthy

  1. Play Sex With A Sexbot May Not Be Healthy 

    The sex technology industry is estimated to be worth $30 billion. While sex toys are well-established, sex robots (sexbots) are no longer science fiction.

    A new editorial in BMJ Sexual and Reproductive Health, entitled “I, Sex Robot: the health implications of the sex robot industry” explains that sex with a robot may not be a good idea, and the medical profession needs to be prepared for inevitable questions about the impact of sex robots on health.

    The editorial touches on four key themes relevant to healthcare providers: safer sex, therapeutic potential, the potential to treat pedophiles and sex offenders, and changing societal norms.

    While there is currently limited evidence suggesting real danger in having sexual intercourse with robots, rising demand could cause cheaper sexbot models to be produced in the near future, thus increasing the risk of play sex-related injuries.


    CNET met and interviewed play sex doll model, Harmony, in a conversation with an AI sexbot. This is what it’s like to chat with a RealDoll sex robot programmed to get to know your body and your brain.

    Sexbots currently cost between $5,000-$15,000 (USD) and currently only female models are available for purchase. However, male sex robots ones are apparently on their way later in 2018.

    Forbes

  2. No evidence that sexbots reduce harms to women and children  The Conversation AU
  3. Sex Robots Could Empower Pedophiles and Sex Offenders | Opinion  Newsweek
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How to find a woman into strap-on sex play

  1. Ask Anna: How do I find a woman who’s into strap-on play? 

    “Ask Anna” is a sex column from chicagotribune.com. Because of the nature of the topic, some columns contain language some readers may find graphic.

    When asked by a reader recently where she could find a woman who is into strap-on play sex where she lives (in a rural area), Anna replied that asking a stranger to meet your sexual needs is a big ask, and it requires a lot more finesse and patience than most people are willing to give it, “And the longer, more boring takeaway is: Play the long game”, Anna said.

    “Some women will be undoubtedly interested in exploring strap-on play with you, even if they’ve never tried it before, AFTER they learn who you are and determine they can trust you enough to be somewhat vulnerable with you”.

    Anna told her not to search specifically for “girls into strap-on play”, but instead to seek out women she might “click with” and who are open minded, then find out where your desires and their desires converge.

    Sex is vulnerability, good sex is anyway, Anna said. With it comes the risk of rejection, judgment, humiliation and, yes, pleasure.

     Chicago Tribune