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How to Role Play Really Well in 2023

Updated December 23, 2022: Here’s how to role play really well 

Whatever kind of sex related or kinky role play starts from one place – your imagination!

Whether you get elaborate or keep it simple, role playing is all really just about doing what turns you on. They list a few ways that you can try to help get you started:

1. Think about your fantasies
Think about what turns you on, in role play you’re limited only by your imagination.

2. Tell your partner about your fantasies
Some role play fantasies can be spontaneous, others need a bit of preparation.

3. Make it kinky
And about who has the power. One of you has power over the other and can have your way with the other; teacher and student, officer and criminal?

4. Start slow
You might feel uncomfortable at first, even if the idea of it turns you on. So start small and slow. Try sexting your partner about your fantasy first, before you get home from work.

5. Get dressed
If dressing up helps you get into character, go for it! If you’re not sure what to go for, try the old classics; House maid, doctor and naughty nurse, sexy secretary, horny hitchhiker, or cop and robber.

 

Sexy role play ideas for the bedroom

  1. Sexy role play ideas for the bedroom 

    Liberating for both partners, role-playing with a partner can be a great way to tap into sexual desires you otherwise wouldn’t try. When you’re in make-believe play sex mode, you can be anyone you want. If only feeling a little silly is the worst thing that could happen, then there’s certainly no reason for you not to try it!

    We already have what we need to try sexy role-playing, a healthy imagination full of sexual fantasies! Costumes and props can add to the fun but aren’t completely, it’s the story that counts.

    If you’re the only one into the role, pick a persona anyway! Try stepping into someone else’s shoes all by yourself and show your sex partner how easy it can be to change the dynamic in your lovemaking.

    Be whoever you like – a hot and sexy stripper, a naughty dominatrix, or a peeping Tom neighbor, and see where your sex play leads you. Your partner will more than likely play along.

    Remember, the main ingredient in sexy role play is just to have fun with it. Anything a little embarrassing happens? Laugh it off! It’s not only the key to a more enjoyable passionate play sex life, but when you can meet any obstacle with no judgment and have the ability to laugh it off, it will strengthen your relationship too.

Why do some women call out “Daddy” during sex?

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Is screaming “Daddy” during sex as weird as it sounds? According to The Sun Sex experts say that calling your partner Daddy in the bedroom is really just a sign of a loving and healthy relationship, but yelling the word is still sexual taboo.

Sex therapist Jacqueline Hellyer told the magazine that using the nickname is just another form of role play sex, “You often find that women who like to be submissive in relationships, like the kind of women who’d call their partner ‘daddy’ in bed, are actually pretty high-powered in their day-to-day lives. Engaging in this role play is their way of letting go and giving in to vulnerability.”

Jacqueline added that fathers are caring, supportive and assertive, and by calling your partner “daddy” while lovemaking is about embracing those qualities in a relationship.

This role playing sexual scenario actually makes some women feel safe, loved and secure.

Always Do These 9 Things Before Having Sex

  1. 9 Things You Should Always Do Before Having Sex  

    If you want to really feel ready before having sex, The Huffingtonpost said you need to follow their experts’ sex tip checklist before you play:

    • Hint at sex long before you have it
    • Have condoms ready
    • Stash lube by your bedside
    • Consider the details (lighting, candles, etc..)
    • Stimulate your brain (in the hours leading up to sex)
    • Forget about everything else – Make your to-do list and then put it away
    • Feel sexy – Do one thing that makes you feel sexier
    • Breath deep – Take a few deep breaths
    • Don’t rush – Start off slow and don’t forget the foreplay

    HuffPost South Africa (blog)