Having a sex resolution or two is really the same thing as having a regular New Years Eve resolutions, you make them after you look back on the past year and decide how you want to make this new year better. And when it comes to sex, it’s never too late to try something new.
Learn More About Yourself
Whether you’re currently in a relationship or not, it’s important to start with yourself when it comes to enhancing your sex life. If you’re not in a relationship, what can you change about yourself during lovemaking that you can bring to your next sex partner? And if you are in a relationship now, there’s always something new you can do to change-up your sexual routine.
Think about how you feel during masturbation and watching porn, and try to find creative ways to share those feelings when making love with your partner.
Have Sex Somewhere Else
If you feel your sex life is getting stuck in a rut, get outside of the bedroom. Have sex at different times of the day and night, and at different locations. Public sex, if you can pull it off, is invigorating, but just don’t get caught!
If you don’t feel quite that adventurous yet, book a hotel out of town, or even in your own town, for a night or two and try different role-playing scenarios. If you’re new to role play, play, play the ‘pick-up a stranger in the bar’ or ‘naughty hitchhiker’ role playing routine.
A simple change in your location, if even just to take a break from the same old sex routine, will make love making feel brand new again.
Act Out Your Wildest Fantasies
Think about your fantasies and what turns you on, in role play you’re only limited by your imagination. Try out your most daring role play character and let your creative sexual imagination run wild. Lose yourselves in different characters and role playing scenarios, like playing the teacher and student or cop catches burglar.
Communicate Your Desires With Your Sex Partner
Being open and honest with someone about your inner most desires shouldn’t be shameful, so make sure you’re honest and open with your sex partner when trying out new ideas. Love making requires full participation by both parties, so springing something new on your partner during sex can be intimidating or a turn-off, so make sure you communicate your desires to avoid any unwanted surprises. You don’t want your partner to feel pressured or offended. Always put your partner first!
Make Any Game a Sex Game
See how many games you already have that you can turn into a new sexual experience. Sure, you can play strip poker, but have you ever tried Strip Battleship? Turn any game into a stripping game, and don’t be afraid to dish out a little playful “punishment” for the loser.
You can even write sexually creative little tasks and requests on game pieces, like Jenga or your favorite game pieces.
Whatever New Years resolution you decide on, don’t do anything that doesn’t make you feel good just for the sake of a having New Year resolution. Instead, use it as an opportunity to experiment and try something new, something you’ve always been curious about but haven’t had the courage to try yet, like bondage using play whips, sexy masks and handcuffs. Remember, you don’t have to get carried away, just enjoy the moments and make sex fun again, and keep it playful!
