Psychology Today: Most Americans Have Tried Unconventional Sex

Sex is adult play. Like in any playground, there are many possibilities, none better or worse than the other. it doesn’t matter how adults “twist the sheets”. It’s play. It’s pleasure, and erotic pleasure is uniquely individual.

Psychology Today says that what passes for “conventional lovemaking” today for some – heterosexual kissing, cuddling, vaginal intercourse and maybe some oral sex, most Americans have played with sex in other ways.

Some of their more interesting findings were:

  • More than half of American women own at least one vibrator.
  • Most Americans lose their virginity in their late teens, mostly around 17 years old, which is just one or two years later than today’s grandparents did.
  • Premarital sex is universal, 95 percent of Americans were not virgins on their wedding nights.
  • 15 to 20 percent of American men patronize sex workers, prostitutes, at some point in their lives.
  • Eleven percent of Americans (around 30 million people) are not exclusively heterosexual.
  • Before age 50, 40 percent of Americans have experimented with oral-anal sex (analingus), penis-anus intercourse, sphincter massage, fingering or toy insertions.
  • Many Americans with chronic conditions and disabilities can’t play conventional sex roles and make love in other ways.
  • Many elderly lovers can’t accomplish intercourse, so they instead play sex with hand jobs, oral, toys, and even some other forms of kinky sex.
  • About 20 percent of American adults have had group sex, or engaged in threesomes, polyamory or swinging.
  • Indiana University researchers surveyed 2,021 American adults and found many enjoyed BDSM: spanking (30%), dominant/submissive role playing (22%), restraint (20%), whipping and flogging (13%). 43 percent had played sexually in public.
  • The number one erotic fantasy is to have sex with someone else other than one’s regular partner.

We all now must think long and hard before we label any sex play weird or deviant, there is no normal. So we must be careful when calling anything abnormal.

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California university says OK for children to watch porn and play sex

  1. California university’s website disturbingly says it is OK for children to engage in ‘sexual play,’ watch porn

    According to The College Fix, The University of California, Santa Barbara sociology department hosts an online platform, maintained by students, called “SexInfo Online” to answer questions about sexuality.

    The website, SexInfo Online, maintained by the school’s sociology department by students “who have studied advanced topics in human sexuality,” features a sub-sections with articles related to human sexuality, one of them titled, “Childhood Sexuality.” One document says parents should react ‘positively’ to 4-year-olds touching each others’ genitals, and discusses disturbing topics such as “childhood masturbation, sexual play, and the appropriate reactions to those behaviors by parents.

    The authors of the article said, on the topic of sexual play between young children, that it is most common “between the ages of four and seven” and that it is “generally harmless”, adding, “If a child is performing these activities excessively or in public, parents should sit down and talk with them about how these activities should be done in private versus of trying to thwart the activity altogether.”

    Another article on the website titled “Talking To Your Children About Sex,” the author said, “It is important that children understand that viewing pornography is a normal habit, and that they do not need to be ashamed of it”, seemingly encouraging young children to watch pornography.

    The website doesn’t counsel or advise parents to prevent their children from watching porn, but instead states that parents should tell children that pornographic material may create “expectations about sex that are unrealistic.”

    Fox News

Ice Cubes During Sex – 3 Techniques To Avoid

  1. Three Techniques To Avoid if You Use Ice Cubes During Sex, Expert Says

    Using temperature during sex play involves using cold or hot objects to arouse sensitive areas of your bodies, and naturally ice cubes are an easy way to get a cool sensations. If you use ice cubes during sex, says there are both safe and possibly dangerous ways to play with them, listing three techniques to avoid when using ice in the bedroom:

    1. Using ice straight out of the freezer.

    2. Inserting ice internally.

    3. Mistaking tingling sensations for arousal.

    In essence, before using ice on sensitive areas, first let it thaw out slightly, says sex educator Crista Crista, “t’s hard to tell the difference between fun shocking cold and damaging shocking cold.”

    Crista said you should proceed with “excessive caution” when using ice internally during sex play, and the ice should never be inserted for more than five minutes,

    Also, don’t get frostbite! “Pins and needles” sensations, burning or stinging are all warning signs of frostbite.

    A better way to use ice cubes into foreplay or sex play, recommends, is to run the slightly melted ice lightly over lips, nipples, earlobes, wrists and fingers, inner thighs, down the spine and lower back and along the bottom feet.

     Elite Daily

Suki Waterhouse strips NUDE to play sex android

  1. Suki Waterhouse strips NAKED to play sex android Ash  

    The 26 year old model and actress Suki Waterhouse stripped completely nude for the sci-fi drama ‘Future World’, as an android who is serving a Warlord leader (James Franco) as an assassin and sex slave. Suki also plays in a sex scene with actress Margarita Levieva.

    See Nude photos of Suki Waterhouse and read more here

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    Daily Mail