Emily Morse, the founder and host of the Sex With Emily podcast, told popsugar.com, “Go for the triple play when it comes to preventing infection: wash up, wrap up, and flush out.”
The doctor of human sexuality continued, “First, before any touching starts, make sure both you and your partner have clean hands — especially under the nails. Next, use a condom, for obvious reasons. Finally, make sure to pee before AND after penetration to ward off UTIs. Of course, you can also suggest some shower sex to maximize cleanliness.”
Psychologist and sex expert Antonia Hall added important tips that everyone can do to help avoid unwanted infections from sexual activity:
Wash Your Hands Prior to Getting Intimate
Pee Before and After
Don’t Do Anything Else After Anal Without Cleaning Up First
Avoid Oral Sex With Unfamiliar Partners
Wear a Condom During Sex
Wash Up After Sex (and clean your sex toys right away)
A New Zealand man who hit, choked and had rough sex after sexual role play with a woman has been found not guilty of rape and assault.
Apparently the jury accepted the accused might have had reasonable grounds for not realizing the woman wanted him to stop, despite her saying so.’
The defense lawyer said the woman led James Charles Loads to believe she was into rough sex and role play, “These were two people who were out of their depth.”
However, the woman in this case had cried, vomited and pleaded Loads to stop.
The woman contacted a friend immediately after believing she was raped, and the friend took her to a hospital where she contacted the police.
Rachel McAdams’ favorite sex scene wasn’t in The Notebook, the gorgeous actress recently admitted to Entertainment Weekly that she had the best play sex ever with female actress Rachel Weisz on the set of her new movie ‘Disobedience’.
Playing lesbian lovers forced to hide their relationship from their Orthodox Jewish community, the 39 year young Rachel McAdams said the filming of the movie’s sex scene, “felt so integral to the plot and moving the story forward. The characters need this release to open up… There was energy to that scene that I haven’t experienced in any other sex scenes [with men] in my career.”
So is Rachel McAdams a lesbian? “We both felt safe and free”, McAdams said, “All those things that you love about being a woman… so I understand the attraction and appeal to that in a sexual context.”
Racehl Weisz, also a producer of the film, said the play sex scene, “is a massively important and beautiful scene,” and added a little detail, saying “He [director Sebastián Lelio] made it clear everything he wanted: the wetness, me spitting in Rachel’s mouth, and a focus on Esti’s (Rachel McAdams’ character) orgasm”.
Weisz’ character has an orgasm in the movie too, but she said she had to agree as a producer that even though it was a very good orgasm, it wasn’t as good for the story as Rachel McAdams’ orgasm.
“In that moment, Esti’s orgasm is both a sexual release and a metaphorical release to freedom, it’s like she’s free to find out who she really is.” Weisz said.
If you’re curious about the erotic sexual power play of BDSM but don’t quite feel ready enough yet to invest and play in a full scale dungeon, Allure.com magazine just listed some of the BDSM sex tips and advice that you can try if you are a total beginner:
1. Talk through your interests and boundaries
2. Try out some dirty talk
3. Add a blindfold
4. Explore orgasm control
5. Buy a massage candle
6. Learn the ropes
7. Slip on a pair of handcuffs
8. Play dress-up
There is no shame in being new to BDSM. “BDSM doesn’t require any money,” sex therapist Michael Aaron told Allure. “Much of it is psychological, and if you are looking for impact play, many people feel like no toy beats their hands anyway, and that’s free. Likewise, various household items such as rope and clothespins can be used in scenes, and they hardly cost anything at all.”
