California university says OK for children to watch porn and play sex

  1. California university’s website disturbingly says it is OK for children to engage in ‘sexual play,’ watch porn

    According to The College Fix, The University of California, Santa Barbara sociology department hosts an online platform, maintained by students, called “SexInfo Online” to answer questions about sexuality.

    The website, SexInfo Online, maintained by the school’s sociology department by students “who have studied advanced topics in human sexuality,” features a sub-sections with articles related to human sexuality, one of them titled, “Childhood Sexuality.” One document says parents should react ‘positively’ to 4-year-olds touching each others’ genitals, and discusses disturbing topics such as “childhood masturbation, sexual play, and the appropriate reactions to those behaviors by parents.

    The authors of the article said, on the topic of sexual play between young children, that it is most common “between the ages of four and seven” and that it is “generally harmless”, adding, “If a child is performing these activities excessively or in public, parents should sit down and talk with them about how these activities should be done in private versus of trying to thwart the activity altogether.”

    Another article on the website titled “Talking To Your Children About Sex,” the author said, “It is important that children understand that viewing pornography is a normal habit, and that they do not need to be ashamed of it”, seemingly encouraging young children to watch pornography.

    The website doesn’t counsel or advise parents to prevent their children from watching porn, but instead states that parents should tell children that pornographic material may create “expectations about sex that are unrealistic.”

    Fox News

Should You Try Cosplay Sex

  1. What Is Cosplay Sex And Should You Try It?  

    Women’s Health says that while a lot of cosplay sex (having sex while in costume) may be pretty low-key some scenarios can get a little more intense.

    If you have an active imagination and like the idea of having sex while pretending you’re someone else (or someTHING else), cosplay sex could be a fun and satisfying thing to try, says sex therapist D.H.S. Debra Laino, to Women’s Heatlth.

    When you engage in a sexual role play fantasy you probably try to bring your partner in by saying something like “let’s pretend that…”, but with cosplay sex you actually feel like you are the character from the start. So you’re not only dressed up as that character, but also play the role from foreplay to climax.

    While there are no statistics on just how common is, cosplay sex seems to be rising in popularity with events where people can engage in standard cosplay, like Comic-Con and anime conventions.

    Laino told the magazine that for some people cosplay sex is a lifestyle, preferring to have sex in character every time they have sex. But if it makes you feel uncomfortable, or you’re not into fantasy role playing, it’s probably better for you to take a pass.

    Women’s Health

Always Do These 9 Things Before Having Sex

  1. 9 Things You Should Always Do Before Having Sex  

    If you want to really feel ready before having sex, The Huffingtonpost said you need to follow their experts’ sex tip checklist before you play:

    • Hint at sex long before you have it
    • Have condoms ready
    • Stash lube by your bedside
    • Consider the details (lighting, candles, etc..)
    • Stimulate your brain (in the hours leading up to sex)
    • Forget about everything else – Make your to-do list and then put it away
    • Feel sexy – Do one thing that makes you feel sexier
    • Breath deep – Take a few deep breaths
    • Don’t rush – Start off slow and don’t forget the foreplay

    HuffPost South Africa (blog)

Helpful Tips For Your First Time Playing in a Sex Club

  1. What to Expect Your First Time at a Sex Club  

    Contrary to what most people think about them, sex clubs can actually be quite varied, and a lot of fun! Often styled like a typical nightclub, sex clubs often include private areas with beds and other toys for sex play.

    Some things you should do, according to lifehacker.com, before you visit a club for the first time are:

    • Research Your Options – do you have to go through any necessary steps or pre-screening?
    • Familiarize Yourself with the Club’s Rules – most sexclubs will have a website where the rules are listed in detail.
    • Make Friends with the Staff – spend a few minutes chatting up the hosts, bar staff, or security
    • Figure out Your Own Rules – think about what sexual activities you’ll feel comfortable playing with
    • Bring Your Own Gear – lube, condoms, whatever..
    • Always Ask for Permission – know the participants sexual boundaries and limits
    • Clean Up After Yourself – it’s just good sex club etiquette
    • Check in with Yourself and Each Other – if you’re with a friend or partner check-in time at a specified time to see how you’re each doing.

    Read original article at Lifehacker